I Can’t Be Depressed… I’m a Guy! | Psych Central
Over the last few years, more and more men have been strong enough to stand up and declare that they suffer with depression. That has led to some really nice coverage on the subject. I dont want to write about that. They have all the research and studies to back it up, as well as the stories of many high-profile men from movies, TV, and sports. I get it. They are depressed. Yet, they also have the best available services at their fingertips! Im just a guy, no huge bankroll or million-dollar contracts. Rather, a guy with mounting bills, a family to feed, and a hopeless pit in my soul tearing me apart.
I cant be depressed Im a GUY! I dont have the time to deal with this mood. So, I swallow the pain and move on. I avoid the help that is out there because I dont want my other guy friends to think Im weak. Yes, weak. The stigma of how others think of mental illness keeps me away from talking to anyone about my unrelenting feelings of despair. So I buck up and tell myself I can take this Im a GUY. We dont complain about this type of thing!